Isn't this saying that to live you must feel? The good and the bad....
Lesson number 5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath. And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and lots of time with him/her.
Lesson number 6. The tears happen: Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourself. LIVE while you are alive.
That's how I want to live my life - these are my goals - it doesn't always happen, but I do try.