He who wants a rose must respect the thorn. -Persian Proverb
Okay this is something only a few will truly 'get'. You can't get the rose without going through some hard work.
If you think you have the rose and you haven't done the 'work' involved, you do not have the rose.
If you want the 'rose' be willing to work hard for it.It's hard work, but worth it.
I wish us all the 'roses' of life.