A closed mind is a wonderful thing to lose.
Some minds are like concrete, thoroughly mixed up and permanently set!
I mean sometimes we must stay strong in our basic beliefs, I don't mean that. I mean when someone tells you something about yourself, as painful as it might be, at least look at it. Hear it, examine it. Is there any truth in it at all? Does it make you mad (then it's probably the truth).
Once you examine yourself - decide for yourself it it's an issue of yours or if it's not. If it is something you need to work on - do it.
It's hard to to be open minded and to try to change.
Let's be able to be molded,